All my posts till now saw emotions and relationship,so this time I seriously wanted a change...............so took all my diaries till date and started searching for different yet interesting write ups...so at that time I looked at this one.....I liked it..........so thought will share with all
Beauty is skin deep??????or have we lost brains to think so!!!!!!!!!
Dated:12.08.2005
Today I had an amazing conversation with my friend.So you(my diary) are supposed to listen to it all , before I call it a day.........Sindhu(name changed) and I were enjoying the day at the college as we usually do......as always we didnt have any idea of listening to the lecture,so with our own way of whiling away the time ,started with a topic.As usual it was about the glamour industry!But what was new was the way the topic took a turn.We were generally discussing heroines and beauty,when my friend made an impeccable comment "This beauty doesnt't last long suma".We all know this fact but never take time to understand it I thought.When I abruptly replied "But it speaks a lot about you in today's scenario".The reply was especially meant to develop the conversation,I wanted to know her view and on top enjoy the fruit of not listening to the lecture.And as expected Sindhu continued "Why the hell would somebody look at your skin which will sag with age".I continued my argument "Then why is the cosmetic industry having a boom like never before".With her deadly smile she made a clear point telling it was not the mistake of the business but the customers,we all want to look like ash and he makes money out of our lust.I defended her saying that "If you don't look good nobody respects you dear.So atleast if we were not born looking good,we could mend it with these cosmetics".With her never ending deadly smile she continued,"To tell the fact nobody can change the God gifted color and features dear.And even if you try and succeed it will not last long.And on top of it they might only risk your skin's pattern.There is no meaning in fighting the fact that we were born with a set of features.If you want to become a doctor you got to have a good memory power,a researcher then you should love experimenting and the same if you want to become an actor you got have good looks.Its just another profession Suma.Everyone is gifted with a set of assets and we got groom our own best asset to succeed.There is no use sitting all day and praying that I become gorgeous all of sudden when you got better jobs to do.And wasteing money and time on it.When we start acting according to other's view forgetting what makes us happy, at that moment we die.We should first understand what makes us happy.Just because somebody makes a bad comment on your looks you cannot spend your life wasting all your resources mending it.And this might only increase the feeling of "we not being we".If you got few extra pounds added to your weight,no problem that is how you are.You sit and diet like crazy,then finally you'll lose your happiness of being yourself,missing your lovely and yummy food.So we need to do what makes us happy Suma,not what makes us sad!"before she wanted to continue I interrupted her"So you dont like being complimented as Ms.perfect!wierd!actually we all know the fact that when somebody compliments us that we look good,happiness grows like a tree.So why fight the truth Sindhu?"Sindhu replied keeping her smile intact "See the happiness that you think is happiness is just a extension of your emotions for a moment.If you have a feeling that happiness comes when people compliment you,then you will die being happy at occasions.That happiness tree is one without roots that would fall down with the first rain.If you know that happiness is your extended emotion always,then you would be happy for what you are and not how you are.That would be the perfect,strong tree that would keep growing with the rains , bigger and bigger after every shower.Your attitude makes you happy not your amplitude.So if you really want to be happy run behind your passion,have the warmth nature of accepting people for what they are(character)and not how the are(looks).Because we all know that - with age we wrinkle and with time we learn".I liked her ideas,they were this perfect ten on ten thoughts for people who looked bad but I still had doubts ,wasn't looking good all about being liked at the first impression.Sometimes there have been harsh days where we would have lost the race just because we didnt have that superb look.But my mind responded to my thoughts," losing that race would be better than winning" at the end of the day you are what you love to be,that is YOURSELF.Before I could talk more, mam called out Sindhu to stand up knowing that we were busy chit-chatting.I couldn't avoid but smile.Sindhu at her new posture reminded me"Your smile is cute especially because of the fact that you made me talk and stand too!Ms.Selfish cute smiley.........Suma"These words are making me laugh again.With this smile I would call it a day.
Gud nite
Friday, July 27, 2007
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Princess Diaries Version 1.1
People Don't Change But Their Colors Do
Hi long since I posted..........the title sounds annoying right!Dairy writings dont have a title and all that..so does mine.......But when I read this piece of writing in my diary I felt like I got to give it this title............
Dated:21.06.2006
As we grow up we see a lot of people,a lot of colors,a wonderful blend of characterstics and a surprising thread of togetherness.Everyday we get to see new things,as kids we experiment with them........but as we grow we don't.....and with our physical growth our mental growth actually is getting reduced...........We defend taking risks..........we play safe.Not that all of us do but some of us surely do.When I think of my school days,I remember the innocence with which we met people.The lovely feeling of being open minded.And the non-jealous attitude towards life.That is missing as we grow.Not that people change in a day,it is only that they learn all bad things quickly in this world.As a kid we would fight the previous minute and talk the next,but as we grow we get strained with grudge.We start hating people.I think the start of terrorism is just due to the fact that we build opinions,separate people,segragate the ultimate God and think war is the end to it all.How stupid we are.We misinterpret relationships.This world is just one,we are all entities of the same planet,we are all people with the same features.We should be proud that we are sixth sense homo sapiens.But instead we act like animals.And the worst,today's kids are being influenced by this wrong opinion.If we all could understand the fact that this extra effort that God had taken while he designed us ,is just to make us understand the fact that we are one,we would not act so foolish.
And added to this is the literal sense of people dont change but their colors do....you grow and people see with your external flair.....they give serious expressions like"Look at that girl she looks like an angel!"........no one is a devil here, all of us are angels....................but this stupid sixth sense works the other way.....we start counting on things that will not last long like beauty and forget about the real ones like our attitude.We spend so much time grooming ourselves externally,that we forget internal grooming...but this is the other way round at the young age.That innocent smile,those incredible attitudes,the unselfish bonding,the inevitable perseverance,the experimental nature...........let it not be a history.We need to keep it alive all through life...There should be a day when we should be able to proudly say "Neither people change with time,nor their colors"
As I was reading this diary writing I was astounded that I was also changing ,I wrote it someday but left it in air.Now I think I should revive it back."Love being a child at heart because it helps you grow as humans not animals...................!"
With this thought
I close my diary for now
Hi long since I posted..........the title sounds annoying right!Dairy writings dont have a title and all that..so does mine.......But when I read this piece of writing in my diary I felt like I got to give it this title............
Dated:21.06.2006
As we grow up we see a lot of people,a lot of colors,a wonderful blend of characterstics and a surprising thread of togetherness.Everyday we get to see new things,as kids we experiment with them........but as we grow we don't.....and with our physical growth our mental growth actually is getting reduced...........We defend taking risks..........we play safe.Not that all of us do but some of us surely do.When I think of my school days,I remember the innocence with which we met people.The lovely feeling of being open minded.And the non-jealous attitude towards life.That is missing as we grow.Not that people change in a day,it is only that they learn all bad things quickly in this world.As a kid we would fight the previous minute and talk the next,but as we grow we get strained with grudge.We start hating people.I think the start of terrorism is just due to the fact that we build opinions,separate people,segragate the ultimate God and think war is the end to it all.How stupid we are.We misinterpret relationships.This world is just one,we are all entities of the same planet,we are all people with the same features.We should be proud that we are sixth sense homo sapiens.But instead we act like animals.And the worst,today's kids are being influenced by this wrong opinion.If we all could understand the fact that this extra effort that God had taken while he designed us ,is just to make us understand the fact that we are one,we would not act so foolish.
And added to this is the literal sense of people dont change but their colors do....you grow and people see with your external flair.....they give serious expressions like"Look at that girl she looks like an angel!"........no one is a devil here, all of us are angels....................but this stupid sixth sense works the other way.....we start counting on things that will not last long like beauty and forget about the real ones like our attitude.We spend so much time grooming ourselves externally,that we forget internal grooming...but this is the other way round at the young age.That innocent smile,those incredible attitudes,the unselfish bonding,the inevitable perseverance,the experimental nature...........let it not be a history.We need to keep it alive all through life...There should be a day when we should be able to proudly say "Neither people change with time,nor their colors"
As I was reading this diary writing I was astounded that I was also changing ,I wrote it someday but left it in air.Now I think I should revive it back."Love being a child at heart because it helps you grow as humans not animals...................!"
With this thought
I close my diary for now
Friday, July 13, 2007
Princess Diaries Version 1.0
Hi .........so did you try playing with the diary?Anyways I got to update my diary..........
So if you ever thought that the diary was all this boring planner..or this effluent peoples daily schedule keeper, your wrong.Its special in its own way.As I opened my diary i read this very interesting write up of mine.........
Date:10.11.2001
Why do I have confusions with relationships?
Sometimes its annoying but the word relationship is just too good and at times too bad too.What makes a relationship?What has it all to do with life?I start my life alone and end it alone,so where does all this relationships take me?
I guess I'll strain my brains a little more for answers!Relationships are simple at the beginning and become complex as we grow.The word relationship is astonishingly different with different people.So the word is like a chamelion ,"changes with environment".Exactly I do have confusions with every relation and they are all different.A few days back I met a little girl down my street .She was very preety and sweet.I asked her for her name and she immediately replied "Ankitha".Before I could tell her that she had a nice name her mum interrupted.Ankitha ask akka(elder sister) her name.There was nothing special about this,since all of us would have experienced such incidents.But there was something that made me think more............As a kid we are open to everybody,we dont creat barriers or hassles by the name of relationships,but this society around us teaches it.It gives every relation some name.And we stay with that fact.We got to forget it all.When we start to bond freely without hassles we dont expect anything from the relationship.So when you give some name to the relationship you start expecting from it too.Like if I call somebody a sister,I would like her to be caring and helpful.And this kind of list goes on.Instead of that if I am open and just,my love should be undivided to all I meet in this big world(known or unknown)and it should be a pure - one without expectations.Because only when you have an innocent love - its love, otherwise its just a feeling...............
So if you ever thought that the diary was all this boring planner..or this effluent peoples daily schedule keeper, your wrong.Its special in its own way.As I opened my diary i read this very interesting write up of mine.........
Date:10.11.2001
Why do I have confusions with relationships?
Sometimes its annoying but the word relationship is just too good and at times too bad too.What makes a relationship?What has it all to do with life?I start my life alone and end it alone,so where does all this relationships take me?
I guess I'll strain my brains a little more for answers!Relationships are simple at the beginning and become complex as we grow.The word relationship is astonishingly different with different people.So the word is like a chamelion ,"changes with environment".Exactly I do have confusions with every relation and they are all different.A few days back I met a little girl down my street .She was very preety and sweet.I asked her for her name and she immediately replied "Ankitha".Before I could tell her that she had a nice name her mum interrupted.Ankitha ask akka(elder sister) her name.There was nothing special about this,since all of us would have experienced such incidents.But there was something that made me think more............As a kid we are open to everybody,we dont creat barriers or hassles by the name of relationships,but this society around us teaches it.It gives every relation some name.And we stay with that fact.We got to forget it all.When we start to bond freely without hassles we dont expect anything from the relationship.So when you give some name to the relationship you start expecting from it too.Like if I call somebody a sister,I would like her to be caring and helpful.And this kind of list goes on.Instead of that if I am open and just,my love should be undivided to all I meet in this big world(known or unknown)and it should be a pure - one without expectations.Because only when you have an innocent love - its love, otherwise its just a feeling...............
And more to it is anger,jealously,selfishness and so on.Why do we get angry?Even for that we have got one good old answer."I like you a lot thats why I can be angry only with you".Sometimes this can be a wrong perseption,see at the first place anger is created not occured and the second place anger is an illusion not image.When our heart works without our brain's consent ,our mind stops working.We dont have a control on ourselves!So this is a situation created.We need to avoid it.The same goes with selfishness,jealously,...created versions of no self control.and at the more we blame others for it...we blame relationships....and in this short life we lose one good bond...only because of a negative attitude....so when you have a bond dont define it with set of rules...like "my child has to study and become a doctor for my sake".....Why create such expectations...when we are not authorised to do so....we shouldn't force our wishes on others.we do it only because of the big fact"he is my child"..which is wrong he is your loved one and so are everybody..you can love him but not order him...your not here for that.what happens at the end of such biased expectations we end up fighting between relationships and cry after we lose them......no use what is once lost in life is lost.........Sometimes I've done it myself.When my mum will ask me to switch of the light I would take advantage of her and tell her"why dont you do it instead of telling me!"though it looks funny as a sentence ,it isnt.If I had a pure,innocent and open heart I wouldnt have commanded.Because only when you strain others with your commands you spoil the relationship.So stop creating glues to your wings,they are for flying.Help them fly high.So next time when you meet people meet them without the intention of straining them with the word relationship.Just be a open book and give them a hand, you'll know the difference of pouring love without expectation.All of us are here only due to divine inspiration.So rejoice this world,leave the hassles,feel free to be yourself.Dont react because the world does.React only when you want to.Channel your heart and brain's frequency to a child's then you'll understand relationships are wireless bonds that connect peoples hearts not mind.Dont live for someone else,because one day you might end up being a puppet at other's hand.And at that time you might not have the time to free back,because this life is short.
Sweet dreams.
Sweet dreams.
This was one of my very interesting dairy writings...........And when I write I feel with it.So I write as though I am talking to somebody..but that somebody is also me...hopefully I didnt bore anyone........So you got any more interesting views on relationships do post in.And open your wings because we got to fly high toghether in this life....and after it!
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Princess Diaries
I know that the title of the blog will make most of you remember the movie.Yes this title is kind of inspired by the movie.My diary is always filled with so much emotions that i seriously love it.Its one of the most precious item i have.It has all my emotions captured like a live video.It sometimes looks like, a diary is a simple note with pages.But its surely got more to its credit.I dont know how many of you have this amazing experience of reading or writing a diary(I meant our own copy).And its even more interesting to peep into others diary too(But beware!it might lead you to trouble).A diary makes you express what your heart says,it maps your brains action and fills you up with emotions.It is your companion always.When you dont know how to express to someone or have the fear to talk about particular issue,just write it down.It surely relieves the truble thats eating your head.Without a headache pill you obviously can get rid of headache.It makes you rejoice sweet memories,lovely emotions that bypassed you.Helps you build your future by constantly pushing you to write down what you desire.So a diary is your counterpart.Now Its My princess diaries.As i write down every blog,you might have an peep through my diaries,the rough times and the fun ones too.But got to wait till I update,till then play your emotions in your diary and feel the difference..
Bye from
Princess diaries(I am sorry I am not all princess,but the name princess gels so well with diaries that I want to keep it like that).
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